Okay, woah woah woah woah:
Marriage is on the decline, and that’s starting to scare a lot of people. Even without that knowledge, marriage has never been JUST FOR MEN. Certainly not in the last, oh let’s say, 20 years or so, definitely not.
Historically, yeah, it sucked to be an unmarried woman. But now? It’s a choice you don’t have to make.
That aside, let’s take a look at what else is wrong with this caption:
-She changes her name: nope, she doesn’t have to, and she doesn’t do it “for you”.
-Leaves her family: actually, that’s part of growing up, you move out.
-Moves in with you: she doesn’t have to, you could always get a new place both of you chose.
-Builds a home for you: IF YOU’RE WITH SOMEONE YOU SHOULD BE BUILDING A HOME FOR BOTH OF YOU! You don’t build a house for just one person, you build it for everyone!
-gets pregnant for you: PLEASE SEE THE FUCKING ABOVE POINT, PREGNANCY IS NOT JUST FOR THE MAN! CHRIST!
-pregnancy destroys her body and she gets fat: pregnant shaming and fat shaming, nice. Actually, pregnancy is pretty fucking wicked, so shut the fuck up. This was written by a woman? For women? Sure doesn’t sound like it.
-Almost gives up in the labor room: Erm, that’s a choice, pain is no ones fault when you’re pushing a living being from your vagina, and it takes two to fucking tango.
-Kid she delivers bears your name: it doesn’t have to, you have this choice too.
This is a slew of misinformation and shaming. How about you appreciate your wife because she’s your fucking wife, not because she’s a “woman”.
Yeah all these are choices now and choices made by parents together. As for women experiencing pain during labor, if a mother chooses a natural birth than duh, it going hurt which I why I will be asking for the
"drugs". My female feminist teacher try to tell me I was wrong for wanting take an epidural. In most cases the husband or expectant fathers want the mother to take the epidural and last I check only the mother has say if she wants one or not.